Stop With the Axe Bath

Seriously, stop it. there is absolutely no need what-so-ever to marinate in an Axe (or other body spray) bath before heading out to the bar to flirt with the ladies.

Stop with that stuff it’s just disgusting and a turn off to everyone around you.
Colognes are best experienced when the woman is up close to you and can get a subtle smell of what you’re wearing – that means a dab or two – not a bottle or two.

If you’ve been marinating in the axe bath and are just reading this – strip yourself down and have a shower (and be sure your shower gel doesn’t contain over powering scents as well).

Get a quality cologne and just put a couple of dabs on your neck. Be sure it isn’t a conflicting scent with any remnants of your body wash.

A Successful Conversation

Ninety-five percent of conversation should be about the other person… five percent about yourself.

Always be asking questions and create small talk – but make it fun small talk – if you’re at a social event or dating, be sure it’s flirting or even seductive small talk. When asking questions, be sure you’re not asking questions that end up with one-word answers – probe for some details and have that other person feel like you’re genuinely interested in what they have to say.

Don’t forget to keep your body language in check and smile!

Just Smile!

Be certain that you’re smiling… but just a ‘half smile’ – make it visible to those around you, but don’t be sporting a massive cheesy grin… make sure it’s not a ‘smirk’ either – an honest, genuine smile.

Now, as simple as that sounds, if you’ve never really been much for smiling in the past, you may think of yourself as smiling when in fact you aren’t – so, as silly as it sounds, get yourself in front of a mirror and do some practicing!