All hot girls want to be thought of as smart… And all smart girls want to be thought of as hot.
Keep this in mind when talking to women…
It might help trigger a few keywords or topics of conversation that you can utilize to stimulate the interaction.
The subject says it all in this case… Sure there are times to be serious, but we are talking about social improvement here – not a dry, boring day in court or something similar!
So, be sexual in your communication and – to an extent – in your body language.
There is no need to engage in childish drinking games and repeated shots to get drunk at the bar (or a party) to fit in socially. Pick a drink suited to you and enjoy it, your environment, and the company of those you’re with.
When you walk into a bar/coffee shop, or other venue where people don’t know you, you end up being on display – and you never know who is watching, so walk in with a smile and confident body language.
The great thing about heading out to a bar or similar, is that you are a blank social state each and every time so it makes for a great opportunity to practice. In addition to your smile and body language, say hello or try to strike up a brief conversation with the first group you see.
If you’re at a bar, don’t hesitate to chat up the “wallflower” guys – it makes you look like you’re the ‘alpha’ or leader of those groups – male or female.
Be certain that you’re smiling… but just a ‘half smile’ – make it visible to those around you, but don’t be sporting a massive cheesy grin… make sure it’s not a ‘smirk’ either – an honest, genuine smile.
Now, as simple as that sounds, if you’ve never really been much for smiling in the past, you may think of yourself as smiling when in fact you aren’t – so, as silly as it sounds, get yourself in front of a mirror and do some practicing!
The chief danger in life is that you may take too many precautions.
If you’re worried about the outcome of approaching that cute girl or guy, then stop it!
Put absolutely no ‘terms’ on the outcome of your interaction and see how much better (and easier) it is!
The same goes for the majority of your other social interactions. Get out of your head and stop thinking about the possible outcome (which you’ll always consider negative), and just start your interactions!
Here’s a super simple tip for when you’re at the bar:
Instead of walking up to a woman with a beer in your hand, try it with a bottle (or glass) of water.
You’ll be surprised at how well a woman will respond to this and question what you’re drinking, or why it’s water. Many times a woman will “open” you in conversation making it that much easier!