A Blank Social State

When you walk into a bar/coffee shop, or other venue where people don’t know you, you end up being on display – and you never know who is watching, so walk in with a smile and confident body language.

The great thing about heading out to a bar or similar, is that you are a blank social state each and every time so it makes for a great opportunity to practice. In addition to your smile and body language, say hello or try to strike up a brief conversation with the first group you see.

If you’re at a bar, don’t hesitate to chat up the “wallflower” guys – it makes you look like you’re the ‘alpha’ or leader of those groups – male or female.